The main question on the lips of all future married couples who have faced cancellations and disruptions of their big day right now is “should celebrants have the power to legally marry couples to help reduce the ‘backlog of marriages’, which was discussed at The independentthe virtual event on how the pandemic changed marriages, held on July 14.
For our panel, made up of wedding planners’ chief storyteller, The Stars Inside, Sarah Allard, editor-in-chief of Hitched.co.uk and wedding photographer, Lucie Watson, it was a unanimous yes. Valentina even said some registries are currently hosting up to 25 weddings a day, in an effort to help overcome the huge backlog of postponed weddings, which has built up over the past 15 months during the pandemic.
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For many couples who want a non-religious wedding in England and Wales, an officiant can arrange a ceremony, but this is not legally binding. Instead, a registrar must officiate a legal department in order for couples to be officially married in the eyes of the law. This means that couples must also pay for two ceremonies if they want a wedding led by a celebrant. But when council offices were closed at the height of the lockdown, couples couldn’t even register their intention to marry, which is the first step in booking a wedding. This has now led to a huge increase in weekday marriages where couples just finally want to get married.
For those who managed to throw a small wedding during the pandemic, our panelists said many of these couples are also planning to throw a big party at a later date.
But what was most surprising of the panel was that Valentina and Lucie both have plenty of big weddings booked for later this year and next year as well. For many couples, the dream of the big wedding is still very important to them, which means that it has not been completely replaced by smaller, more intimate weddings.
Yet the pandemic raises many new issues, rules and regulations. For Lucie, it is now taking responsibility for being safe in the face of covid. Previously, only the site had to make sure of this, whereas today suppliers must also take on this additional task, as well as the risk assessments, which add to the already increased workload of suppliers.
Watch the full video of the event below
Weddings: has the pandemic changed them forever
Current news aside, when it comes to discussing the future of weddings, Valentina has been booked for a number of destination weddings for 2022 and is hoping this type of wedding will be back next year. . It would have been music to the ears of many listening to the panel who have family overseas or who have always dreamed of saying ‘yes’ in a beautiful place outside the UK. Sarah has also seen a growing trend for wedding dresses in department stores and renting instead of buying, which she hopes to continue as well.
The panelists all believed that more personalized weddings were also becoming increasingly popular, as people avoided traditions and the over-involvement of family members in important decisions.
Their final tips for future couples, which ring true with all of the panelists, was to stay true to what you want, surround yourself with great like-minded vendors, love being engaged, and lastly, remember them. three main things that are important to you, whether it’s a band you love or eat off the street. It is, after all, your day.